How to Use These Slides Effectively

A Practical Guide for Parents, Teachers, and Mentors

These slides were created to spark deep conversations, open the door to growth, and bring clarity to the emotional world of children and teens.

They are not meant to be rushed through like a typical slideshow. Instead, each slide is a powerful tool - a conversation-starter, a visual lesson, and a doorway into meaningful connection.

Step 1: Pick a Slide Kit That Matches Your Focus

  • Emotional regulation

  • Executive functioning

  • Time management

  • Delayed gratification

  • Self-talk and mindset

  • Anti-bullying

  • Motivation

  • Respect and boundaries
    ...and more.

You don’t need to go through the whole slideshow. Even one slide is enough for a full discussion.

Step 2: Glance Through the Slides — and Choose One That Stands Out

Scan the slides and pick out 1 or 2 slides that catch your attention. Maybe it shows a picture your student will relate to, or it includes a message that applies to a current struggle at home or in the classroom.

Example:

A slide that says: “I am allowed to take a break before I explode.”
You can pause there. Ask the child:

  • What does this mean to you?

  • When do you feel like you need a break?

  • What kind of break works best for you?

Let their answers guide the conversation.

Step 3: Use the Slide as a Discussion Tool

Instead of “presenting,” think of the slide as a conversation starter. Try asking:

  • “Do you ever feel like this?”

  • “What do you think this kid is going through?”

  • “If you were in this picture, what would you say?”

You can also role-play what’s happening on the slide or draw your own version of it.

⚠️ Important: You do not need to go to the next slide right away.

Sometimes the best discussions happen when you stay on one slide for several minutes or more.

Step 4: Let the Slide Open a Window Into the Child’s Inner World

These slides are designed to help kids:

  • Feel safe expressing their feelings

  • Learn that they are not “bad,” just struggling

  • Gain tools to respond instead of react

You’re not just teaching a message — you’re showing them that they are seen, heard, and supported.

Step 5: Reinforce the Message with Follow-Up

  • Create a routine where you look at one slide per day/week.

  • Print out a favorite slide and post it near the desk or bedroom.

  • Ask the child to pick a slide they want to “practice” this week.

Remember:

  • The slides are not the goal — the conversation is.

  • It’s OK to repeat the same slide next week.

  • Children often open up slowly — consistency builds trust.

  • You are planting seeds of emotional growth and self-awareness.

Want Help Choosing the Right Slides?

You can always reach out to Rabbi Sputz for guidance on which slide kits match your specific goals - whether you’re helping a child with anxiety, supporting a struggling student, or running a classroom discussion.